I’ve done this before…

Amanda on May 22nd, 2008

I just dropped my husband off at church ready for camp. Round 2 of 6 trips this summer, here we go! Being Memorial Day weekend I am finding that a lot of friends and family are going to be away as well these few days that Jeff is gone. Boo for me. So I’m ready with lots of DVD’s for after the kids go to bed, a trip to Disneyland to wear everyone out, and planning on eating out as much as I can ☺.
Ugh, I really am not looking forward to this…
I have mentally prepared for this for a while now, and still feel like I am holding my breath until Tuesday. Hopefully we will all stay healthy and lice free this trip! I’ll let you know how it goes.

Allison at 3:31pm May 22

Next time I will stay with you and we can laugh the night away!

Marie at 7:54am June 30

I have a really hard time with this. I’ve been married for almost a year, but have also been a youth leader (volunteer) so I have gone on many of the same trips as my husband. However, one can only take so much time off of work and I just find it terrible whenever he has to leave for the trips. This past weekend I dropped him off at 4am on Sunday and when I saw people at the church the next day, I didn’t even bother to act as if I was glad he was going on the trip. Then, I went to our Sunday School class of young marrieds (alone) and the lesson was on spending quality time with your spouse and how important it is. How can we ever do this if we barely get to go to church together because of his commitments? I’m still trying to figure out if it would be more or less difficult for him to be away if we had children. I tend to think that I would feel very frustrated and as if I had fallen into the stereotypical “pastor’s wife” role if I were to be left at home with the kids while he was out exploring the world. Just a rant. It’s nice to know others out there struggle with this too!